Posts

What does Life & Movies Have In Common?

Image
What do Life and Movies Have in common? They both have characters, stories, conflicts, resolutions, climaxes, scripts, lines, genre, theme, settings, cameras, actions, light sound and many many hours of input and dedication of professionals who care and make, maintain and project the movie on the big screen and we all get a feeling of wow that was a fantastic movie. After everything is said and done what makes a movie of  150 or so minutes memorable apart from the work of the editor and mixers the graphic designers and many other professionals is a magnificent story. The challenge in life is that we are the director, the writer, the narrator, the trendsetter, the organizer, the camera and sound personal, the light holder, the graphic designer and recorder the digital mixer and the editor, etc. etc....all in one. While we give a lot of credit and awards to the characters in a movie and shower them with praise recognition, rewards, esteem, and status, we rarely get to cele...

Effective Goal Setting

                                                   This is an Active Goal Setting Workshop                                                              Click On Link Below And Start                                           http://f894fboio90y4q9bt3qhs1gg7o.hop.clickbank.net/ Goals are nothing but plans for the future.  Goals are not wishes; they are active measures towards the desired outcome. We have no control over dreams except to have them; however Goals we have a high degree of control over.  To live an empowered life, we must have empowering goals which will add value to our li...
Image
Why Goal Setting is Important for Success? Does your life have a purpose? Are you living a life by design? We can live our life either by design or by chance. Jim Rohn, success and business philosopher, famously said, Earl Nightingale put it this way,  "People with goals succeed because they know where they are going. It's as simple as that." "If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much." By not setting goals, your goal is merely to give up your life to chances and take whatever life happens to you. The Key Differentiating factor between Success and Failure Why are some people more successful than others? Why do some people achieve so much in life while others achieve so little? When you look closely at successful people in business, sports, art, science, politics, etc., one consistent factor which stands out is that successful people  ...

Change Paradox

Image
The truth of the matter and fact is that change is automatic part of life whether we like it or not.  Imagine if there was no changes in Life? Change however is not always what we  welcome, the only changes we welcome are those that satisfy our needs. However  change is an inevitable part of life and nothing is forever.  The greatest precursor or precondition for having a relatively fulfilled and happy life in all major realms ie. Relationships, Health,  Career and Finance is to realize that  (Relativism is the Ultimate Realism). Meaning our success is in realizing  what stage of life we are at and that which changes are bound to occur, because  the only constant in life is change. As long as we don't resist it and accept  it and as long as we do not get attached too much to one set of conditions and accept to flow naturally between life stages we will have a relatively  fulfilled journey. We are most susceptible at the intersection of...

Change and Problem Paradox

Image
There is whole new industry called the change industry. Gurus, consultants and coaches like myself preach certain mechanism to bring about positive change in some area of life. Mind you, these are well intended people and some of the great people, some of whom I have a great pleasure of working with.  However to be really honest with you  it is an amazing industry, it is like self-perpetuating never ending revolving door,  where people never get the result they really want and keep coming back for more.  Look at fitness and diet industry for instance.  Unfortunately a great percentage of changes that people desire are initiated under wrong or ill informed premise.  There are lots of books than one could really count and read, there is tons of information online. There are as many experts on any subject as there are opinions. Although I accept and respect all the valid credentials of some of the so called experts.  I take issue with lack of ecol...

The Power of Internal Language

Image
Words are potent means of not only transferring our ideas to the world. They are even more potent since it is with the power of language that we reconstruct the external reality of the world and shape our internal world and try to constitute a measure of certainty.  In fact, it is so powerful that with a slight difference in syntax and context of language we can change our internal world and under this, we will change and transform our means and methods of dealing with the external world.  Scientist has long been researching the origin, perpetuation, and differentiation of language.  The field of linguistics breaks down language study into several departments namely cognitive, generative, quantitative, and functional theories of grammar, phonology, morphology, syntax, lexis, semantics, pragmatics, and orthography. These are just a few building blocks of the intellectual hierarchy of humanity (language). Knowing that we are empowered with such powerful software, why do...

The False Hope Syndrome

Image
The Truth of The Matter and Fact is that wherever we are today ( Emotionally, Financially, Socially, Physically ...otherwise) is the result of our dominant and consistent patterns of behaviors across many domains. Unless we take a hold of these patterns and disrupt and engrave new pattern nothing will change.  We may have episodes of change but nothing will change in the long term. We at large have multiple personalities but generally speaking in terms of time there are three versions of  the self. Our past self, Present Self and  our Future self.  Most people have too much false hope for the future self when in fact they are too anchored in their past stories and most people have an even higher level of hope for the future when in fact they have bondage to hedonistic living.  However we all expect our future self to arrive in style, younger, richer and more liked and appreciated. We dream about that one event that will change everything, for some of us that e...