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Take a Walk On the Other Side of The Fence!

Become the observer & the observed . Become the breath, the breathing and the breather, be the lover, the loved, the maker and the seeker, bring all the dichotomies within yourself face to face so they shatter their mirror of fraudulent realities and see the true identity of selfless self, image less image, powerless power, bring the wealth and poverty together let them shatter their vice and virtues and free yourself from the material and non material become the fragrance in the garden of eternal experiential awareness, of knowledge and infinite organizing power. Be just in the presence of eternity as you are sliding away from this transitional existence to join again with the realm of unknown and all that is beyond the current of our perceptual misguidance. Be the breath, breathing, breather, love, loving, seeker and maker, transcend from the realm of non existence of sentiments and symbolism to the realm of eternal non judging none suffering infinite and limitless, timeless r

Fragmented Souls, Lives, Societies, Countries & World

For as long we approach life from reference points of 1.Fear, 2. Ego and 3.Addictions we shall never feel peace of mind, unity, and grace in all the realms of life. The window of our reality will always be foggy if our perception and approach pivot around those three points. Clean the fog by cleaning up the Fear, Ego, and Addiction. For too long people have tried to think of themselves as fragmented entities divided between competing for interests at the sacrifice of values. This fragmentation is reflected in the model of the world we all perceive. It is time to step up and take action set new rules of engagement and take charge of our souls, spirits, thoughts, actions, habits and ultimately our destiny. For that to happen we MUST take charge of the following three reference points. 1. Fear: Constant anxiety stops the natural flow of nerve energy and leads to a multitude of pathological symptoms. Take a deep look into your soul and clean the rooms of your heart and the curtain of

Most Business and Life Issues Are People Issues

In today's multi tasking environment, it is really easy to lose sight of the basics. Most Business and Life issues are directly correlated to people issues. If you want to have a better life and better business, take a good look at the people in your life and in your business. Understand their issues and help them fix these issues. By taking care of your people, by training and leading your people, then and only then you will see a dynamic shift in your life and in your business. If People can not do something there are two reasons behind it. a) They don't know how, this is easy train and teaches them they will do it. b) They don't want to do it. Now if they don't want to do it there are two reasons behind that. a) They don't care this is an attitude issues, b)They belief strong enough not to do it, this is a value issue. Attitude: Most problems in business and life are attitude problems. Attitude is an assessment of situation based on internal resources an

19 Secrets of Success

1. Passion, do it for love not for money 2. Work, All hard work, if you love your work you will have fun. 3. Good, Put your nose down to something and get good, Practice, Practice, Practice. 4. Focus on one thing 5. Push, Push, through self doubt and Fear 6. Serve 7. Ideas do simple things well 8 Persist through Failure and C.R.A.P which stands for criticism, Rejection, Asshole and Pressures. 10. Detached, yet an open mind. 11. Avoid the Greatest Tragedy. The greatest tragedy of life is not death, it is the lack of living while we are alive! 12. Tune your mind's ears to the wisdom of silence. 13. Review your personal history and make sure it true and then give it up! 14. Challenge your mind and body to go where you are uncomfortable. 15. Resentment is the cry of incompetence (Be Competent)! 16. Visualize what you desire the most daily and ask why do you want it so bad? 17. Accept that you are the co-creator; you are responsible for the past, the prese

Power of Convergence

A) Mental (Thoughts and Cognition) B) Physical (Body & Physiology) C) Emotional (Nerve Energy & Psychology) Every experience is assessed through all these three levels of existence without any particular order. Now each of this level of awareness has force field that can either be in harmony or in conflict with the rest of the force fields. For example something might make perfect mental sense but does not feel right in the deep down physical or gut level. Or some thoughts may provoke certain level of physiological discomfort or altered states and the opposite is true. Research in the area of Nero cognition, Nero behavior, and development psychology has indicated the mirror neuron effect of an event or experience on individual. So for the experience to be fully engaging and long lasting it must be felt in all three levels of reality. So how can we use this knowledge in our daily lives. It is imperative to understand that if we seek change and improvement

Breakthrough

Breakthrough Breakthrough is a shift in beliefs, perceptions, projections and standards. It happens in one moment, by one decision with one insight and with taking one step with faith. It comes from inside, you break out of your condition and limitations. It is available to anyone in any moment.   Breakthrough is considering like losing 100LB. It is like facing responsibility paying the price. Its like freeing up your mental energy to perform better and better in all areas of your life. Sometimes it is failure that pushes us over the edge. You either get playful enough or angry enough. Break Through is a radical transformation. How an obstacle can be the beginning of a new life and how your prospective changes forever. Breakthrough is always physical but starts out as a psychological shift. You get psychologically stronger. You figure out how to close to the gap from where you are to where you want to be. Sometimes you increase the gap which is a nature’s test to se

The Power Of Momentum

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The Power of Momentum Momentum is the leverage that is built through disciplined action. Momentum is the universal force that can be both constructive and destructive depending on what type of mindset we foster. What builds momentum in the negative direction is much easier than what builds momentum in the positive direction i.e. falling down from a tree vs climbing up to reach an apple. To build momentum in the positive it is a continuum of conscious action. The following key components must be present to achieve effortless ease for achievement. Define your mission, whatever it may be. Define it with absolute clarity and emotional intensity. The Mission must be absolute MUST. NOT a MAY BE! 1. Break down the Mission into several achievable goals. 2. Take disciplined action on consistent basis towards attainment of each goal. 3. Evaluate and measure your progress, develop resourcefulness. 4. Understand that set backs will give you negative force, redirec

Social Media's Interesting Facts

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Social Media is here to stay, here are some interesting facts about social media. Generation Y has now out numbered baby boomers. 96% of  generation Y have joined Social networking sites. Social media has over taken porn as the 1 activity on the web. 1 out of 8 couples married in the U.S. in 2012 have met via social media.  Years to Reach 50 Million Users. Radio        38 years TV              13 years Internet        4 years ipad 3            3 years Facebook  100 million less than 9 months If Facebook was a country it would be world's 4th largest after China, India & US China's QZ has reached 300 Million 80% of companies find linked in as their primary tool to find employees Fastest growing Segment on Facebook is 55-65 years of age females. 95% of social media users access the site through their smart phones. What happens in Vagas Stays on Social Media. YouTube the Second largest search engine in the world 100,000,000 + Video Word of mou

Thinking Errors

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We are given a profound computing and thinking capacity, at the core of which exists speed, focus and accuracy.  By the same token these traits causes us to make errors in judgement and thinking. As we speed the rate of information processing, focus and accuracy starts to give in. While thinking is simply defined as asking questions, often time the heuristics and biases route of our cognitive map kicks in to give us the answers we are looking for. Because of need for speedy information processing, we do one of three things either separately or all at once. Deletion, Distortion & Generalization.  As the result of this patterning, habitual thinking errors occur. Further these thinking errors makes life difficult for us. I list 12 of them in this blog. 1.   Catastrophic Thinking: Jumping to worst possible conclusion in exclusion of all other fact and factors. 2.   Black or White Thinking:  This refers to all or nothing thinking and thinking in extremes. 3.   Fortune Telling:

Self-Esteem & Self Acceptance

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In the last blog we spoke about self-image and how we think and behave in relation to our self-image.  We mentioned in order to deal with our self-image issues we must look away from physical realm deeper into the psychology of self, because it is the poor attitude toward self that manifests itself into problematic thinking and behaving. I often time hear people talk about self -esteem, I still have not seen any human being with steam coming out of their ears.  All joking aside I realize there are a great deal of us dealing with self-esteem issues. We may not notice it in our behavior but it is obvious from the way we walk, talk, and engage other human beings. Well, I am here to say there is no such phenomenon as self-esteem, rather self-esteem is an epee-phenomenon. The real issue is self-acceptance, for if we fully accept who we are we will never feel bad about ourselves and the cognitive illusion we call self-esteem will be out of our lives once and forever and not only that the

Body Image, Unhealthy Thinking & Behaving

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Unhealthy Thinking 1.  Making rigid demands and rules about the way other people must or must not judge your appearance. 2.  Linking  your self-worth to you attractiveness. 3.  Placing too much importance on physical appearance and under rating other characteristics. 4.  Over estimating how much other people evaluate and even notice your looks 5. Holding unrealistic expectation and standards for your own physical appearance. Unhealthy Behavior 1. Comparing yourself to others on regular basis 2. Over preparing before going out in public 3. Being overly obsessive with with dieting and exercising only for the reason of improving looks not health. 4. Attempting to hide away from scrutiny even from lovers 5. Seeking constant reassurance from outside world. Solution, self-love and acceptance this will be the topic for next blog, until then smile:)